Leaving My Marriage & Finding Confidence Again
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From the outside it seemed that I traded one chapter of my life for the next. Seemlessly. But here’s the truth.
I was navigating the emotional turmoil of a divorce that came loaded with judgement, miscommunication and abandonment, whilst simultaneously having no access to the...
It’s true - heart break broke me.
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It’s true - heart break broke me.
I felt the colour drain out of my life. Everything was grey. A break up is just the beginning of your heart breaking. I felt the cracks in my heart widen as I realised everything I had ever imagined for myself was no longer a possibility.
Loss in any way can...
Doing "the work" is never just for you
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Activating the courage to actually begin speaking about what’s below the almost superficial trauma of my divorce (which only triggered what I had repressed, neglected, denied as a child) still feels challenging and it’s still not something I feel safe to do.
But, ive alluded to it in...
After my Divorce I almost gave up on love
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Seeing as I’m transparent about my love & gratitude for my relationship - I also want to offer something else here to you today.
There was a time I genuinely believed I had missed my chance at being deserving of unconditional, all in, life changing, dripping in desire &...
Overcoming Divorce - 10 Minutes at a time
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It’s true. For the first few months after my separation - I flew.
The good stuff kept coming & I felt amazing. Pretty much all of the time. Freedom. Release. Possibilities.
Then I heard that people were saying “she will do well in this divorce, her husband owned...
The part of me that has believed I am a burden dissolved a little more today
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Last night, as we stood brushing our teeth, for the second time that night I asked my husband “are you mad at me?”
Annoyed, he spat out his toothpaste and shook his head “what are you talking about? I said no. Im just really tired”
I felt myself shrink....
Divorce hits different when you didn’t start a family together
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Divorce hits different when you didn’t start a family together. No one talks about the way it’s assumed that you make a “clean break” after divorce if there aren’t children involved.
There is absolutely no part of me denying that I have no idea of the...